Concern 2: Is There â€œToo Fastâ€ in Christian Dating?
Is there any such thing as â€œtoo quickâ€ in Christian relationship? How will you determine if a dating relationship is going too rapidly emotionally, or too soon toward wedding?
My goal is to be genuine careful of saying there was such a thing as â€œtoo fast.â€ The things I prefer to ask is this: Whatâ€™s driving the rate? If simple real attraction or some type of emotive, frilly, this-is-the-one weirdness is driving the rate, then, yes. In the event that relationship is outpacing familiarity with character, reputation, and familiarity with godliness, then that is much too quick.
â€œGodliness is sexy to godly people.â€
But then speed isnâ€™t a big factor if you are in a context in which you have watched the personâ€™s godliness, you have marveled at their character, you have rejoiced in what God has done in them and through them. (mais…)